my energy or yours?

In everything, it is either mine or yours. Can it be both? In a selling situation, the child's energy overpower the mother and the father. What about a  boss? The employee under hin could turn the management upside down. Then where is the rationale of all good things? Does it comes from below or from top? Surely it is the manager's energy more than the subordinates. Despite that, it is always a fighting game, my energy or yours? Kepada Allah kita berserah. Kepada Allah kita memohon taufik dan hidayah. Allahuakbar.