being defensive...

As an individual human being we are not with everything to help us. At our disposal is the immediate thoughts and the immediate words that could just be said. But can the first thought and the first word be trusted? Generally, human being tend to be defensive in terms of so-called  perceptual attack. All attacks and assaults in the beginning are perceptual. We are not animals that can be offensive only with a physical attack and the sound of a physical movement. As such we use our thoughts and words wrongly. We use thoughts and words in defending ourself. It is okay if it truly a defense in spirit and physical. But most of the time, without any reasonable basis, the defense begin to take place. In other words we are being defensive for the wrong reasons. Semoga diberi Taufik dan Hidayah. Allahuakbar.